Oracle of Ybor: How can I stop Christmas from killing my father?

Dear oracle,

My parents LOVE Christmas and usually go all out. They host our large family and friends and I know it can get very stressful. However, my father has recently had health problems and is under strict instructions to avoid stress if possible. How can I convince my parents to take it easy this year or at least accept help? (There are two grandchildren, but the rest of us are adults.)– Everything is quiet, please.

Cards: Knight of Swords (reversed), Ace of Pentacles, The High Priestess (reversed), Last Quarter.

Dear AIC,

As someone who feels most comfortable hosting a dinner party, I know well the love of being a host. I also know the nervous annoyance of being told to “rest” when there are so many other things you want to do.

That’s why I have great sympathy for your parents. But doctor’s orders are doctor’s orders. I think as a Knight of Swords you have to be the powerful voice of reason. The…